Take a deep breath!!!

Take a deep breath!!!!!

Among all the chaos in life, sometimes it gets harder to keep things on track. It is even harder to put everything on place and take life step by step. As life has become so busy that minute after minute and second after second is reserved for multiple tasks. If you are a student, university, college, assignments, presentations, and passionate wish for a successful career haunts you till morning up till to the bed time. If you are a professional, a working person, things in your life haunts you in a different way. You think and actually over think and create problems that are not even there at first place. Desire for a successful career makes you work even harder. To earn more in less time is craziest desire that is present in every single being. Let’s be honest, we stress over stuff which might not even matter after five years from now, and is it not funny how we have made our lives so stressful over them. It could be desire of become a billionaire within 1^st year of your job. It could be to complete a four year degree program within months. And chances are that it could be a person whom we consider everything. But that person has no idea about our feelings for him/her. However, if not like this, there might be different kind of troubles a person might be facing.  

But the question is, whether stressing over something will solve it??????? If yes, than it must have been solved up till now.  Therefore,  STOP, take a Deep Breath… worrying over an issue is not a solution, it only makes it even more worse.  Moreover, with thousands of different thoughts within your mind, you cannot progress, for better progress one need to think with positive mind and with determination. Keep on thinking over an issue will not only make it worse, but it will lead a person towards negative thinking. And with negative mind, a person will never have a positive outcome and progress. Therefore, do not enclose yourself with worrying, with negative thinking. But try to look at the other side of picture, try to focus on positive bits and pieces. 

Sometimes a person just need a break from tough schedule, keep working on same track can sometimes causes tiresomeness and boredom and with this a person is not able to focus and is not able to continue. And a goal can never be achieved in such state; it requires lots and lots of motivation. all of your plans are achievable, one just need to have faith in their strength and on fact that nothing can be achieve within days, weeks, and even in months,  things takes time. Yes!! And sometimes it takes years of waiting. The only way to reach at your goals is to struggle with positive mind set. We have heard that nothing is impossible, indeed everything is possible. It is only our negative mind set which prevent our efforts, which makes us less motivated, which assures how hard it is to achieve our goal. Hence, stop worrying as it will not benefit you in any way but steal your mental peace instead. Stay focus, stay motivated, take a deep breath and continue with whatever you are doing in order achieve the life of your dreams!!!!

Faith and believe!!

In this world of worries, where we all are worry for something, where we feel ourselves incomplete, where we are always missing something, where something is disturbing us some where in our minds, where we have everything but still we are not satisfied. and different thoughts from different parts of our lives are disturbing us and won't let us to carry on our journey. what is this feeling? and what is this unsatisfaction? why are we worrying?

 It is our lack of faith and believe on us. if we ever decided to do something the first thing we need is faith, we have to be faithful to ourselves we have to believe on ourselves. it is the only thing that take us to our goal. if we really want to reach our goal with all of our success, we have to be faithful person and we need to be a believer that if i am doing this for some purpose or i have to reach on that goal, we to need to believe on our selves that i can do it or i can reach that goal. it surely took some time or maybe we face difficulties at the begining but later with all of your believe and faith you will reach at your goal.

Behis Muashra!!!

Hum jis muashrey mein sans ley rahy hain. wahan insaniyaat apni akhri sans ley rahi hai. ye bilkul such hai aur afsoos ki baat hai k yeh such hai. muashra jisey hum ne tameez o tehzeeb ki misal bunana tha wahan ajj aise aise kissey aur waqiye samney atey hain k insaan k rongtey kharey hojaein aur wo ye sochne pe majboor hojae k akhir hum zinda bhi hain ya nahi? humare ander koi his baqi bachi b hai ya nahi? Roz roz tv pe anay wali khabrein bas sunney k liye hi hain? ya in sey kuch sabaq bhi lena hai?
Hum jis muashrey mein hain, is ko hum ne hi behter bunana hai ye humre liye hai aur hum is k liye, is muashrey ka nizam hum ne hi theek karna hai. ek acha aur sehatmand muashra hum sab ka bunyadi haqq hai.
Roz ba roz k bhartey huye ye na khushgawar waqiye humre muashrey ko mazeed tabahi ki taraf ley ja rahy hain. kabhi kabhi yahan qatal bohot aram sey hojata hai aur kabhi yahan rape, aur mujrim dhandanatey huye phirtey hain. insaaf ki dhajiyan ura de jati hain. koi ba-asar insaan koi jurm karey to wo phr b azad rehta hai. aur ager kisi ghareeb pe musibaat ajae to wo apni awaz bhi nahi utha pata, ye nizam kab tak chalyga? aur kab tak is terhan ka zulm hota rehyga?
Humein awaz uthana hogi aur mujrimo ko saza har hal mein dilwani hogi, nahi tou is behis muashre ki behisi ka kisi din hum bhi shikar hosakte hain!!!!!

Zindagi!!

Hum sab hi loug, apni apni zindagi'on kay barey mein bohot kuch plan karte hain. Humein agay jana hai, Kam karna hai, Ye karna hai, Wahan settle hona hai. aur bhi pata nahi kiya kiya, kuch loug apni plannings mein barey kamiyab bhi hojate hain aur kuch ka kam nahi bun pata, Zindagi ek bohot khubsoorat cheez hai. Bas issey samjhne k liye thora wakt chahiye hota hai..
Ajj kal ki zindagi mein bohot depression aur tension paya jata lekin humare buzurg'oon ne bohot pur sukoon aur sada zindagi guzari hai jis sey wo bohot mutmaein bhi hain. ajj kaal wo baat nahi hai. jis ki waja shayed ye hai k hum ye life style passand hi nahi karte ya hum apni khuwahisho'on ko pura karne k liye din raat ussi barey mein sochte rehte hain ya us k liye kam karte rehte hain, jis k natijay mein na hum pur sukoon nahi ho pate aur ulta depression mein chaly jate hain. aur is ki waja shayed ye b hai k hum ne apne buzurg'on k pass bethna hi chore dia hai.
Jahan dekho loug app ko "busy hoon" khe k tal dete hain, sab apni apni kashti pe sawar hain aur manzil ki janib tezi sey jana chahte hain.

Mein kabhi kabhi ye sochti hon.. k duniya mei har koi hi apne liye apne behter future k liye bohot koshish kar raha hai lekin phir depress bhi hai.. is ki waja kiya hai??? shayed hum apni zindagi k barey mein bohot ziyada pareshan hogae hain aur har wakt isi k barey mein soch soch k mazeed pareshan hojate hain jo humein depression ki taraf ley jata hai..
Mere khayal sey overthinking bhi kam kharab krti hai.. aur hum apna present time bhi depression ki waja se kharab kar dete hain.. jab k zindagi ek bht khubsoorat chez hai koshish to yehi honi chahye k is k har ek lamhe ko enjoy karein lekin ye koi practical baat nahi hai. achai burai ka ana tou zindagi k sath sath chalta hai.. asal baat hai k app issey kese handle karte hain..
Ager ek hi cheez k barey mein sochte rehy to mazeed pareshan honge aur pareshan hona masle ka hall nahi, tou kuch maml'on ko wakt pe bhi chore k dekhein kiya pata wakt k sath sath sab theek hojae, ye mera chota sa opinion hai..!!!